How to win a GF/BF?

[Onigex]

Gosh this kid has been coming up to me constantly and asking me out. My reply is the same "Hell no." Finally he said "How come you dun like me?"
I was like "...........uhhh............" and then I walked away. Then my friend asked me "How do you win a guy?" How to win? WHAT?! I dun get it help me!

[Joey]

Winning is like woohing. You have to impress them. Get them to take you. Winning their heart.

[Yari]

I hate people who do that! Anyway, I wouldn't know the answer to your question :ph34r:

[Onigex]

I know but how do you?

[Seraph]

Originally posted by SSalex13@Apr 4 2003, 05:50 PM
Gosh this kid has been coming up to me constantly and asking me out. My reply is the same "Hell no." Finally he said "How do I win u?"
I was like "...........uhhh............" and then I walked away. Then my friend asked me "How do you win a guy?" How to win? WHAT?! I dun get it help me!
You could be a little more kind in letting him down for a start, Capt Frosty. Seriously, putting them down creates apathetic cynics like me.

Ugh, be confident if you want someone. That's all you need. Get to know them, and take it from there.

[Onigex]

I didn't nessecarly say hell no just "er.......no thanks........"

[Joey]

still sounds like the kid likes you....give him a chance...WAIT A MINUTE! Am I being syntimental?!?!?! **Slaps himself**

[doggy]

winning a chick isn't worth it. It takes to much work.

[Cherish]

That's why u nevr 'won' me!

[Onigex]

wait Joe, dohhy and Cherish know eachother?

[Cherish]

yeh, Joe told us bout this place. We saw him sneaking off to the library, and then Mike(Doggy) accused him of being a closet nerd. Then, after Joe gave mike a black eye, he told us about this place. Most of the REAL places we hangout at, have either been boarded up, or we've been kicked out of, so this place is ok. It's kinda boring, but atleats I can talk to people.

[Onigex]

s'not boring it's just wierd.

[Joey]

neways, back to subject

[Onigex]

Well I dun want to go out wit any1. I just don't........

[Joey]

what about me? lol...j/k

[Onigex]

Awww! If only you were like real.....well your real but you know ......aww......4 get it!

[Joey]

lol. The sad thing is, I AUCTUALLY UNSTOOD THAT!! AAAAAAH! :blink:

[Onigex]

You auctually? Auctually? R U tryin to say actually? lol......so what if u understood that? I can........wait.............yyyy........eeeeeeee.. ...........ssssssssss

[Yari]

I really don't think there is a solution to winning a BF/GF over because everyone is different and this might work on that girl ut not that one. This might work on that guy but not that one. You understand? B)

[Seraph]

CONFIDENCE.

[Erin B.]

The only way I would see anyone being successful at meeting their ideal "mate" is to just be themselves and not do anything stupid in order to impress the guy/girl you wish to date.

I've already been through two guys, and I've always tried to be myself and that's how I got them (well, the first one I grew up with, and the other one instigated).

JUST BE YOURSELF, PEOPLE!!

[Yari]

I agree with Erin. BE yourself! It can make the divorse rate go down. I mean, if you do something to impress them, then you end up getting married and act like yourself when your married, they may think your not who they thought you were. Also, I have a really somplicated phrase. Let's see if anyone can understand it. This is true.

My mom is a teacher who teaches teachers how to teach special ed teaching.

Thats allot of teaches. ;)

[Joey]

Alot of teaches that is..

[Musclebobbuffpants]

this girl liked me last year she starred at me with those spookey eyes :blink: :o

[guitarooman]

this girl liked me last year she starred at me with those spookey eyes 


dude thats weird... i hate that, it's always the nerdy girl who goes to the library on a daily basis...

anyway, i always seem to find that the girl that makes me laugh or is the most unique was the girl i was most attracted to.

[Joey]

When someone starrs at you, just say- "Do you got an obsession wit my face?"

[Seraph]

Something tells me that wouldn't work.

[Joey]

It works at first, but then you get slapped....

[Invader]

Maybe you can go around wit him once for like 1 or 2...days..or..hours :blink: ...and then break up. He'll probably let out all his feeling while you guys are goin around...wait a minute........dats bad :huh: ...um...oh well just tell him your not interested... <_< ..and kick him or sumin....

[Joey]

Ummm.... I guess that could work..COULD

[Chaos88]

well there are 2 girls that i really like at my school but i dont know which ones i like,there both really hot and one of the is popular and the othe ris close to being popular,i dont even know why i like both of them, i think its not the way they look, but its something about them that i like,

the popular girl names Nicole Comerford and i liked her last year then i though i didnt like her after 7th grade, but it still seems i like her. and someone told me that since we are good friends she like me a little more than a good friend, plus she has never had a bf before.plus we always talked to each other in 7th grade and still do in 8th

the girl thats closes to popular, her name is Brittney Corin and i think i started likeing her when we always partner up in are classes to work on worksheets. and i usaully help her alot on her work to. but this girl has had a bf before

usaully when i try to talk to them sometime i get to nerves to talk and walk away.i hate it when i do that

[mAc Chaos]

Uh, what difference does it make whether or not they had a boyfriend before? By the way, if you want to do it, you need to be confident. Any indecisiveness will kill you.

[Chaos88]

ok would that be all

[Invader]

Originally posted by Joe@Apr 17 2003, 10:52 AM
Ummm.... I guess that could work..COULD
The kicking part? ;)

[Joey]

yeh, I tried it, but got slapped.

[Chaos88]

ohh you probly hated that

[Joey]

It happens, alot.

[Invader]

I never get slapped.i get kicked in the nads...but thats about it..

[Tr0]

Ive been punched in the nads like 4 times in a row by to lil short gurls my age...then kicked in the nads and got sand in my face, and tried to get taken down by both of em but it didnt happen...i dropped them both and ran for my nadz not my life...
Oo ya and i liked this gurl and didnt have the guts to talk to her bout it even thoe we were kinda good frends 4 about 2 yrs and sat next to eachother...and she liked me! by the time i had the guts to talk to her bout it she sed she didnt like me...

EDIT: No swearing outside of Insane, please.

[Chaos88]

well that must have really stank, i would hate that, thats one reson why i think i should stop being nerves and ask a girl out or sometime

[Onigex]

I don't like the guy though so I said no 6 times. I just want to say " LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!" But I can't. :(

[Naemi]

Originally posted by SSalex13@Apr 19 2003, 03:13 PM
I don't like the guy though so I said no 6 times. I just want to say " LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!" But I can't. :(
Wuss... No just kiddin. Its really easy - you dont have to say no all the time just say it to him clearly "i said no and i mean no, so stop asking me!"

[Onigex]

tried that. :(

[Tailz]

Just say no,i said it b4 and i'll say it again. and if he keeps going, what are you addicted to me or something? Get outta here! (j/k, that's not right) just keep saying the same thing until
1. He goes away
2. you hook him up with someone else (somebody, who either likes hm or owes you a BIG favor)
3. Go out with him
4. he shows up on your doorstep with flowers on your prom night. Then move far far away, and see if he follows.

Only boy who ever did that to me ended up with a huge slap mark on his face and my little sisters Favoritte purfume that she made by her self- it smells like crap!

[Chaos88]

lol was any of that funny to you at all even for a bit

[Tailz]

Ooh! I need to add one to my list REAL quick!
5. He gets your email adderss and starts writin love letters to ya, and then all you have to do is kick his ass!!! :D
(This is what happened to ME, so... just adding it, incase of emergency)

[Onigex]

Thankz for the advice. :D

[Rurouni_Kenshin]

Hmm all you really need to say no to someone is confidence and fatih. only problem is faith is like a sword it cuts both ways. The lst time a girl kept askin me out even though I was goin out with some one else and so I just said Sorry I don't want to hurt your feeling but I can't go out with ya. Well the truth hurts sometimes but you just get up and keep steppin' out to your goal. :2gunfire:

[Tailz]

:angry: Shut up R_K, like You would know.

[Onigex]

He does.......do you? Only you cna start forest fires! lol.
He stopped asking!!!!!!! :lol:

[Tailz]

Lucky You! I'm gonna go start a forest fire now! Bye!! J/K. i'm going to set fire to my mattress, see ya!

[Rurouni_Kenshin]

Yo ashlee what the heck do ya mean by like I would know. I'm gonna pummel you in sparring for that. I'm thrin to help SSalex13 out.

[Silver]

Hmph winning a gf/bf isn't easy i went thru it.. If you really want a bf/gf you need confident like that guy said and also make your crush happy with u. Talk and spend time together.. LOL i did all those but my crush liked my best friend :blink:

[Seraph]

Fate can be like a broadsword, I'm not too sure about Faith though....

And I said CONFIDENCE first. Credits and kudos to yours truly, please =D

[Onigex]

Thank u! But i dun like any1 now! :D

[Erin B.]

Me neither. I'm happily single right now, since my last boyfriend and I broke up in October (oh, well, his loss).

But, I know my Prince Charming is out there somewhere! :wub: :angel:

[Onigex]

I don't care with me but hopefully you get The Prince!

[Erin B.]

Originally posted by SSalex13@May 2 2003, 07:02 PM
I don't care with me but hopefully you get The Prince!
Thanks.

[Onigex]

ur welcome

[SylentChaos]

Well guys, life isn't THAT easy like me, got slapped about 30-40 times in my life

*can't talk about it, can't feel those pains again :D*

But to LegendaryGoku, it doesn't also matter which one is popular.

[Ricken]

This one chick used to have no problem talking to me last year. Then in like october or november, she just stopped talking to me and blocked me on msn. It sucks...She is so fricking hot...

[Rurouni_Kenshin]

This one chick used to have no problem talking to me last year. Then in like october or november, she just stopped talking to me and blocked me on msn. It sucks...She is so fricking hot...

Then stop waiting for her to make the moves and you take over that's mainly what girls look for they want to see how much courage you really have and if you have what it takes to talk to a girl without waiting on them. :lol:

To all girls....
Please don't get mad I'm only telling what I know and what I observe.
I hope you don't all begin to get on me for this. B)

[Seraph]

If she blocked you, then give up. Sadly you've lost, and if you want to stand any chance or keep your dignity, then don't make yourself look more pathetic by carrying on. At least confront her over why she blocked you, but don't rely on stupid optimism, it never works.

[Ricken]

I have, on other MSN names...SHe just blocks those once she finds out who it is...And I never see her in school...Oh well, I never go for anyone who I have a chance with...

[Chaos88]

some ppl have a hard to time to talk to a girl and some do not, it all depends on what there and your reactions are.

[tree princess]

Originally posted by LegendaryGoku@May 15 2003, 11:38 AM
some ppl have a hard to time to talk to a girl and some do not, it all depends on what there and your reactions are.
"it all depends on what there and your reactions are."
oh really?
and i suppose it has nothing to do with what your talking about....
where you are...
who your with...
or how much ice cream she's holding is there?

[Musclebobbuffpants]

Originally posted by LegendaryGoku@May 15 2003, 06:38 AM
some ppl have a hard to time to talk to a girl and some do not, it all depends on what there and your reactions are.
I never have problems talking to girls sometimes they start talking to me then it ends out she hugs me. :blink: :ph34r:

[Sudokian]

Only girls I know very well hug me. <_<

[Chaos88]

well im glad, im at aleast getting closer to the girl I like .

[tree princess]

that's good.....
as long as your main objective isn't sex

[Chaos88]

Originally posted by tree princess@Jun 13 2003, 02:41 AM
that's good.....
as long as your main objective isn't sex
it isn't. im not that bad.

[tree princess]

that's good then...

[Sir Laguna]

Sex is a terrible main object to have and will only make you end up right back where you started. Why do you think there are so many people like that trying leech off every girl anywhere... any girls at the DBGTN forum will probably know what I mean.

[tree princess]

Originally posted by Sir Laguna@Jun 14 2003, 12:01 AM
Sex is a terrible main object to have and will only make you end up right back where you started. Why do you think there are so many people like that trying leech off every girl anywhere... any girls at the DBGTN forum will probably know what I mean.
I'm a girl off dbgtn,
and I have no idea what your talking about.....

[Sir Laguna]

yes, I'm sure you don't....how bout the breasts compeition in the 'To all moderators' topic? And the post in the same topic about wanting to 'lick and suck and drink the milk from your b**bs'? And the request by someone to make a certain moderator his sex-slave?

[tree princess]

breast competiton?
what competition?
but as you have said on dbgtn iguana.....
it's not gonna make a hell of a lot of difference with you on one side of the world and me on the other...... is it?
iguana: "you might as well shove your dick in the cd rom thing"
lol

[Sir Laguna]

well, makes no difference really, just using it to back up a point....and do you HAVE to call me that ridicilous name?!

[tree princess]

huh? what are we doing?
can I join?
I can't spell your name.....it's too hard LAGUNNA
makes me say it wrongly......

[Seraph]

Feel free to join in whenever you want, as long as it's relevant. And do we really need ANOTHER topic on girls?